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The loss of a loved one is something that eventually
affects all of us. Some people struggle for years after the death of
their loved one. Many have said that if only they had had someone to talk
to it would have made their grieving more bearable.
Common Reactions
- Shock Denial
An essential defence system to protect the
mind from overload - "it can't be", "Not Me."
- Anger/Rebellion
At the dead person for leaving them.
At others "blamed" for the death in the hospital.
At God, there is no God, life is worthless.
- Bargaining
Usually with God
"I will do anything to have my loved one back."
- Depression
Reality begins to set in, despair can be the result.
In many respects this can be the hardest stage as you really start to
miss your loved ones.
Acceptance/Readjustment
It may take a long time to reach this stage. Support at
every stage is vital to achieve acceptance especially during times of
depression.
HopeWith
time and the opportunity to talk, it is possible to work towards coming to
terms with the bereavement. |
